Detachment is a privilege held by people who aren’t targets.
"why are you so emotional about this" - unaffected people
read this. write it on your hand. repeat it to yourself.
so you can never ask me that again
Detachment is something that emotional people use to keep from forming unhealthy relationships with people or things. It has nothing to do with privilege. It had everything to do with “why do i feel this way and how can I not get hurt like this again?” Healing is not privilege.